Random... but true

At some point in your lives you feel like you are in eternal, magnificent, overwhelmingly satisfying love. You meet someone who you feel understands you and makes you feel complete and you become attached to this person. Somehow you can't seem to remember what your life was like before you met them. You start off talking everyday and spending quality time together but there's something missing... No boundaries are set. You don't know if this person is just a friend or much more and once sex is thrown into the mix the lines become seemingly invisible. Your expectations of this person skyrocket and it becomes very difficult to bring yourself back to down to earth. The boundaries are very necessary in these kinds of situations because at some point someone is bound to fall. Hearts are very fragile and suffer massive injury when trifled with. Growing up we learned about boyfriends and girlfriends but nobody taught us about friends with benefits. Nobody told us how difficult that game could be if all parties were not in agreement to not fall in love. But sure enough it happens. I guess what I'm trying to say is, before you get into a situation where sex, emotions, and misunderstanding will occur, communicate with the other party. It shouldn't be such a problem to let each other know where things are headed or not headed. Don't wait until someone is head over heels in love with you to say "Oh this isn't what I wanted" Make that shit clear from the very start. Don't play games with people's hearts....

Everyday that we wake up is an opportunity to start anew. Make the fresh start worth while.... Get something done. -*its cold in the basement*

I randomly declare....

Sometimes you just gotta not give a fuck. People will come to you with their hands out... asking for shit. They will not stop and consider that maybe you need something.... Perhaps you're tired.... Maybe you're busy. It's all about their wants and needs. At some point, my darlings, you have to say "FUCK THAT" and take back your time, energy and dedication and do something for yourself. I don't care of it's a shopping trip for a pair of shoes or a day at the museum to distract you from "their" bullshit. If you don't save anything for yourself you are no good to anyone. Don't give it all away. You are worth your own sanity.... remember that.